Weddings are expensive. Harrumph.

Jun. 19th, 2013 06:57 pm
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Try doing this nonsense on an adjunct's salary.

We thought about Florida, but there's the matter of the dog - who would have a nervous breakdown if she was boarded - and the ridiculous prices of beachside hotels in December.

We thought about Vegas - that's cheap, right? A couple of days, boom. Only we're looking at the same amount anyway, by the time we calculate hotel, airfare, the ceremony, and various fees - and I have to fly my children to their father. That was nice, though - 108 floors up on the observation deck. I would have liked that.

All right, then, a small ceremony in the apartment complex's pretty clubhouse. God, with the decorations, dresses and tuxes and cake and everything else, that's even more expensive.

Bah. I don't want to get married by a justice of the peace, but we're two broke persons, here. It's not even funny.

(Vegas is still the most reasonable, if I can find someone to watch my kids in, oh, March or April, so we can do it after we've had a chance to save some of my supposedly decent salary, which doesn't start until fall.)
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Via a tweet I came across from @Paul_Cornell, update on Nine Worlds plans for a major con in London, to be held 9th-11th August, at the Renaissance and Radisson Edwardian hotels near Heathrow. It's the sort of thing I'd be interested in, in principle (they've got speakers like [personal profile] rozk and Laurie Penny, as well as Cornell himself) and though it's a bit pricey and isn't in the most attractive location, yes, you could say I'm the target market.

They've got a track on Doctor Who and Torchwood, which is what Cornell tweeted the link to,* but it wasn't the best introduction to the programme

Here's the line-up of named guests (presumably Guests of Honour, though they aren't named like that)

Kai Owen is a Welsh actor best known for playing Rhys Williams in Torchwood, initially in a supporting role and coming into a main part for seasons 3 and 4. He has also appeared in Being Human and Waterloo Road, and played the lead role in BBC series Rocket Man.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kai_Owen


Gary Russell is a Doctor Who writer. He edited Doctor Who Magazine in the 90s, has written several DW novels and co-wrote the making-of book for the 1996 DW movie. As part of the team creating the new series, he wrote Doctor Who: The Inside Story in 2006, and The Doctor Who Encyclopedia in 2007. He also directed "The Infinite Quest", an animated series tying in the the 2007 Doctor Who series, and wrote Art of The Lord Of The Rings.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gary_Russell


James Goss is a producer and writer for Doctor Who and Torchwood spin-off media. With the return of Doctor Who in 2005, he began putting together material with the aim to construct a whole world beyond the show for fans to explore, including games, videos and fictional websites. He has produced Doctor Who animations and special features for the DVDs, as well as writing two Torchwood radio plays and four Torchwood novels.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/James_Goss_(producer)


James Moran is a television writer known for his work on Doctor Who and Torchwood, including the episodes "The Fires of Pompeii", "Sleeper", and "Day Three". His feature "Cockneys vs. Zombies" was released in 2012, and he has also written for ITV's Primeval and BBC1's Spooks.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/James_Moran_(writer)


Joseph Lidster is a television writer best known for his work on Torchwood and the Sarah Jane Adventures. He started writing tie-in material for the new Doctor Who series in 2005, before joining the Torchwood team to write for the second season in 2008. He has also written content for sites tying in to the BBC's new Sherlock series.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Joseph_Lidster


James Swallow is an award-winning author and multi-media scriptwriter. His novels Fear To Tread and Nemesis were New York Times Bestsellers in 2012 and 2010. He has worked on Blake's 7, Stargate, and Doctor Who, and is the only British writer to have worked on Star Trek. He was nominated for a 2012 BAFTA for his work on the video game Deus Ex: Human Revolution.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/James_Swallow


Ben Aaronovitch is the author of the best selling Rivers of London series of novels. He is also the author of several Doctor Who novels and TV episodes.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ben_Aaronovitch


All excellent people, some of whom I'd be delighted to hear, but noticed anything yet?

And then there's the track itself:

Saturday

Writing Doctor Who and Torchwood
Kicking off our GeekFest weekend in style, Messrs Lidster, Moran, Goss and Russell talk us through the joys and challenges of writing for Doctor Who (past and present), Torchwood and The Sarah Jane Adventures - for the show, novels and audiobooks.
With Joseph Lidster, James Moran, James Goss and Gary Russell

Doctor Who: The Future (... Spoilers!)
So as it stands we are facing not one but two new Doctors... or is John Hurt really The Valeyard? In fact is Matt Smith even the Eleventh Doctor at all? It's an interesting time for the future of DW and there's a lot at stake! What does the future hold for our cosmic wizard? Warning - there may be spoilers!
With David A. McIntee and Iona Sharma

Interview with Kai Owen - Torchwood's Rhys Williams
Kai Owen achieved global fame with his portrayal of Rhys Williams in Torchwood in 2006 with the character elevated to star billing for the third series in 2009 reflecting his growing role. More recently Owen has appeared in the BBC's Being Human and the Syndicate. There'll be time for autographs afterwards.
Interviewed by Joseph Lidster

Discussing Religion and Doctor Who: Faith, Science Fiction and Academic Research (hosted by the Academia track)
Religion and religious themes have consistently been a subject of interest over Doctor Who's long history. Recently, the show has attracted everything from Church of England conferences dedicated to its use in preaching, to guest appearances by Richard Dawkins. But what is the value of using a science fiction show such as Doctor Who to examine religion? Is there not a danger of turning science fiction, often seen as an avowedly secularist genre, into a tool for evangelism? Using Doctor Who as a case study, we consider that science fiction can serve as a valuable tool for scholars of religion, in examining shifting historical understandings of faith, the reception of central religious concepts, and even the idea of belief itself.
With Dr Andrew Crome of Manchester University

Doctor Who: RTD vs Moffatt
Some people still miss Russell T Davies as showrunner on Doctor Who. Others think the show's never been better since Steven Moffat took over. Who's right? There's only one way to find out... Debate!
With Paul Condon, Matt Nixon and David A. McIntee

Big Finish: The Audio Series
Big Finish's Doctor Who audio plays have enjoyed a huge success over the past 15 years, showcasing the talents of a fantastic range of new writers. We discuss the strenghts and limitations of the audio format, and talk about their other ranges of drama - including Blake's 7, Dark Shadows, Sapphire and Steel.
With Gary Russell, James Goss, Joseph Lidster, Abigail Brady and Una McCormack
Sunday

Chicks Unravel Time
Discussions and readings from the book of the same name in which our favourite series is reviewed and analysed by a host of award-winning female writers, media professionals and scientists
With Iona Sharma, Una McCormack and Jenni Hughes

Doctor Who: The Ones You Love To Hate
Nothing's more fun than a really hissable villain, and Doctor Who's had more than its fair share of dastardly dudes and dames over the years. What makes a perfect villain? Is it the megalomaniac schemes? A catchphrase? Or just a natty line in sinister clothes? We talk all about the nastiest people in history.
With Jonathan L Howard, Adam Christopher, David A. McIntee and Ben Aaranovitch

Is Doctor Who "Thunderingly Racist"?
A recent academic study of DW makes a bold claim that the show is "thunderingly racist". Is this true? No non-white actors have ever played the Doctor, and the absence of non-white people from the line-up of companions throughout the whole of the Classic Series is notable.
With Adam Christopher, Iona Sharma, Abigail Brady and Una McCormack

Torchwood: Doctor Who Goes Sexy
Fans of Torchwood are every bit as dedicated as fans of its parent show Doctor Who (have you seen the Ianto Shrine in Cardiff Bay?). We talk about why the series was such a hit, which season of the show worked best, whose death hurt the most, and what the future might hold for Captain Jack and Gwen.
With Gary Russell, Joseph Lidster, James Goss and Kai Owen

The Sarah Jane Adventures: Spinoff Success
For some fans of the Classic Series of Who, the launch of The Sarah Jane Adventures brought a nostalgic glow. We talk about the success of this brilliant CBBC series and how the team behind the show are continuing to make children's sci-fi with Wizards Vs Aliens.
With Paul Condon, Gary Russell, Joseph Lidster and Matt Nixon

Doctor Who: My Best Friend
From Susan all the way through to Clara Oswald, the Doctor's companion has been a fixture of the series for as long as it's been on the air. But who's been the greatest of them all? Jamie? Jo? Tegan? Rose? Donna? Or do you fly the flag for Dodo or Lady Christina?
With Jonathan L Howard, Matt Nixon and David A. McIntee

Noticed anything else, yet? The two "diversity" panels - "Chicks Unravel Time" and "Is Doctor Who 'Thunderingly Racist'?" have in the first case an all-woman panel, and in the second case a majority woman panel. Everything else, either no women at all, or the odd one or two being endlessly recycled.

But the final insult comes on the Home page, with the Geek Feminism track. Click on that link. Take in that photo. Because nothing, but nothing, says "feminist" like a plastic Wonder Woman figure, maintaining her plastic dignity in the way a real woman should.

So disappointing, after Eastercon. Panel Parity, so 2012?





*Incidentally, have the people who claim they would have difficulty explaining a gender-flipped Doctor to their children and who use the term "suspension of disbelief" ever attempted to explain the denouement of "The Satan Pit/The Impossible Planet" to anyone who's ever heard the terms "space" and "vacuum"? Thought not.

Reading Wednesday, 6/19/13

Jun. 19th, 2013 02:27 pm
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What I read
  • Barbara Hambly, Stranger at the Wedding - Reread. This isn't one of my favorites, but Hambly's virtues are so consistent it is almost always a great comfort to read her. I picked it because I've reread it much less often than my favorites.

    Many of Hambly's fantasies are about European-inflected worlds undergoing great technological change and attendant social shifts (sometimes it's trains, sometimes it's printing presses, sometimes it's lost access to previous wonders as transportation networks and archives break down). The background attention to the economics of her societies is one of the things that makes them feel so solid. There's also the way her take on the magic of naming seems based in scientific observation (rather than McKillip's poetry or Le Guin's meditation), and characters who are unusual for fantasy. The heroine here is tall, clumsy, arrogant, splendidly dressed, and not secretly beautiful. She returns home because of premonitions that her younger sister will die on her wedding night. The book is an investigation into a mystery and an examination of tensions within the family that cast her out six years ago.

  • JoSelle Vanderhooft (ed.), Wiscon Chronicles 7: Shattering Ableist Narratives - The Wiscon Chronicles 5-7 have really felt like they're describing my Wiscon.

  • Rachel Manija Brown, A Cup of Smoke: stories and poems - Noted without comment because Rachel is too close a friend for me to be objective.

  • Kathryn Immonen & Valerio Schiti, Journey into Mystery Featuring Sif: Stronger than Monsters - After Kieron Gillen's Kid Loki run, Marvel relaunched Journey into Mystery with a focus on Sif, who is Thor's wife in Norse mythology and a great warrior and Thor's sometime girlfriend in the Marvel version. Asgard has recently fallen and been besieged, and Sif is determined to become better able to protect it. The means that she chooses carry an unexpected price, and make her dangerous to her friends as well as her enemies.

    This suffers from coming after the Gillen run, because it's well-done but not brilliant. The change in characters, focus, and tone do help diminish the comparison. (Although Immonen keeps some of Gillen's supporting cast, particularly Volstagg's family.) This arc makes a pretty good fantasy adventure, except that the last issue wraps the storyline up too quickly and in a slightly confusing way.

    The series is being canceled soon, which is sad; I like it so much better than others that appear to be going strong.

    The art is nice and nicely nonobjectifying -- Sif stands like a warrior, not a pin-up, and there are no panels oh-so-carefully arranged to show off her ass.

    Well, mostly nicely nonobjectifying. The supporting cast are all in medievalish clothing, with both women and men clothed for the Norse winter. Sif, however, is walking around in fur-lined shorts. Her shirt actually covers her entire torso, though! (Oh, superhero comics.) And she does not wear ridiculous metal boob armor.

    I am so frustrated Marvel can't manage an art team like this for Captain Marvel. I have to admit to wishing that Schiti and Matteo Scalera would be switched over to Captain Marvel after Journey into Mystery ends.


What I'm reading
Skipping around a lot. Kevin Young's The Grey Album is my morning commute book, but I haven't settled on an evening read, which needs to be less thinky and probably fiction. Tried Karen Lord's The Best of All Possible Worlds, but I'm not in the right mood for it.

What I've acquired
  • Heather Gladney, Bloodstorm - The sequel to Teot's War, which I ordered before I realized I didn't like the first book that much

  • Annemarie Schwartzenbach, All the Roads Are Open: The Afghan Journey - Translated by an old friend.


I am now back up to four books I have acquired this year but not yet read. But I will read them! I will read them before I get Ancient, Ancient! I am determined to stick to my arbitrary but comforting book rules. Also, they have greatly slowed my TBR shelves' conquest of my living space.

The Patriarchy Might be Everywhere?

Jun. 19th, 2013 12:38 pm
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So Ribfest (aka the annual festival in which Sparks Street is inundated w/ rib/bbq chicken/pulled pork stands) has started.

I found one of the stands which sold 1/4 chickens (some of them don't sell smaller than 1/2) and which had a not too bad line and joined it to get myself some tasty bbq.

And it seems like the Ribfest is very objectifying in ways that when each individual piece is taken at face value doesn't seem problematic, but which were somewhat icky as a whole. I'm not sure if it's a new thing this year, or if it's a thing at some of the booths and previous years I have just gotten my food at other booths that didn't do this.

So anyways: as I progressed in the line, I noticed that the cashiers (all female - and the guys were mostly the people dealing with the food) would regularly take up a chant where one would announce "Big Tipper" and the rest would chorus "Thank you, Big Tipper".

And sure enough, the tip jar near the cash had several $20s in it, so yay if they get to keep the tip money, but the whole thing with all the female staff chorus'ing in with the "Thank you, Big Tipper" combined with the way the vibe seemed to be that tips were mostly encouraged from male customers, as if they were meant to be tipping the "pretty ladies", rather than anything to do with the actual service, and it all seemed somewhat off.

Dammit, I want my BBQ chicken without patriarchy. Is that too much to ask?
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The world's slowest Farscape watch continues. Slowly.

S01E06, 'Thank God It's Friday, Again' )

S01E07, 'PK Tech Girl' )

Spoil me and have your rest day taken away.

More cheerily

Jun. 19th, 2013 07:51 am
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After yesterday, I am feeling distinctly perkier today - the clouds seem to have eased a little, both literally and metaphorically.

Incidentally, I saw Joss Whedon's Much Ado... on Monday with [personal profile] kalypso at the Cornerhouse (I cannot get my head around Mark Kermode's insistence that like MCC and Albany, it does not take the definite article, though I agree this is true of the visible branding on the place and its literature.)

Greatly enjoyed, and definitely agree with Philip French's review in the Guardian that everyone's terrible decision-making, hair-trigger tempers and impulsiveness is made much more explicable where, as here, the entire cast is permanently semi-sloshed (were one to ask one of the characters what they wanted for breakfast in this production, the answer would appear to be "a tequila slammer")

The standout performance is Nathan Fillion as Dogberry, someone I'd previously thought of as "one of those ghastly unfunny Shakespearean comic characters" but Beatrice and Benedick are very good, too; there's a scene where Beatrice is trying to shake off a guy who insists on pawing her bare arm and shoulder at a party which is brilliantly observed, and helps point out that for all her verbal freedom she's stuck in a world where women have no real power and they're constantly walking a tightrope between seen as loose or uptight.

In which regard, I don't have the problems other reviewers seem to have about the modern-dress setting and the actions of - in particular - Beatrice and Margaret compared to the "Hero has to be a virgin" McGuffin; Claudio (in particular) is established as an unbalanced obsessive with a nasty streak at an early stage, in his sudden conclusion that the Duke was after Hero on his own behalf (again, a brilliant scene).

In fact, it occurred to me (and I don't know if anyone's actually directed it this way; there were, I'd say, veiled hints in this production) that everyone's motivations would be a great deal more explicable if we assume that Don Pedro and Claudio have just started an affair, Don Pedro is a politician with a very conservative, family-values power-base, and Hero serves as a convenient beard for both of them, with her dowry (which was definitely emphasised in this production. Twice) coming in handy as a campaign war-chest.

It would explain Don John, if he's hoping to use the attack on the Hero marriage as a way of provoking something even juicier to come out.

Greenwood, Kerry: Medea (2013)

Jun. 18th, 2013 09:31 pm
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Review copy provided by Netgalley. The galley is copyrighted 2013, but Goodreads says a version was published in 1997.

Content note: Some discussion of rape, murder, and mutilation.

This is a hard book to review because my reaction to it is basically, "Eh."

It's not a terrible book, it's not a great book, it's not off-putting, it's not absorbing. Typically, my rule for deciding if I want to watch a TV show is, "Is this more fun than reading a book?" For this book, I would much rather have been watching TV.

Euripides wrote the version of Medea best known to modern audiences: the princess of Colchis falls in love with the adventurer Jason and betrays her family -- to the point of murdering her brother -- to help Jason steal the Golden Fleece. She then has a checkered career murdering people for Jason's advancement, which ultimately leads to him becoming king of Corinth. Eventually, Jason decides to abandon her in favor of another princess. (I am not sure I have ever read a single version of this myth in which Jason is not a total schmuck.) In revenge, Medea kills the other woman and her own children. In earlier versions, Medea kills the children by accident or the children are killed by the citizens of Corinth.

In most versions, there is yet more wandering and killing and attempted killing. Most notably Medea marries Aegeus and then tries to poison Theseus when he comes to claim his birthright. (This is included in The King Must Die, because sadly Mary Renault does not seem to have ever encountered a misogynistic trope she didn't like.) Medea is often said to have escaped from both Corinth and Athens in a chariot drawn by dragons. I wonder where she stabled and fed the dragons in between witchy midnight escapes. Possibly she just borrowed them from Hekate in her times of need.

Most versions of Medea's history end with her returning to Colchis and killing her uncle to restore her father to the throne. Presumably her father felt that this made up for that one time she murdered her brother and chopped his body into little pieces to scatter in the sea.

Mildly spoilery, but you already know most of this. )
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PSA

Jun. 18th, 2013 09:03 am
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Some US retailers currently have the ebook versions of the following 90s sf novels at $.99. (I checked Amazon, B&N, and Kobo.)

Maureen McHugh, Nekropolis
Rebecca Ore, Outlaw School
Rebecca Ore, Time's Child

I'm not sure I've read either of those particular books by Ore, but in general she is an interesting, cantankerous, knotty writer, with a lot more attention to class and the structures of capitalism than is typical for USian writers. My favorite of her books is Slow Funeral, recently republished by Aqueduct, which is about a witch in rural Appalachia.

McHugh's Nekropolis' deals with indentured servitude and artificial chemical imprinting in kind of scary ways. Hariba's been "jessed" to be subservient to her master, in return for food, shelter, and minimal wages, and is stirred to rebellion by the presence of a hami, a technoorganic hybrid who is bound to serve the emotional needs of its masters. McHugh is unsparing about the way the technological and social constraints affect perception (how Hariba perceives her master after being released is very different from how she perceives him before). And the take on the perfect robot boyfriend trope a la The Silver Metal Lover is just chilling. The near future Morocco didn't seem exoticized to me, but I'm not the best judge. [eta: [personal profile] zahrawithaz has significant reservations.]

Given the recent discussion of whether women write sf in particular, it's nice to remember that yes, they do, and yes, they have been for quite some time.

EVERYONE is wrong on the Internet

Jun. 18th, 2013 12:12 pm
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Well, it's one of those days, really.

Below the cut I'll be complaining about Stuart Hall's sentence of 15 months for a series of child sexual assaults spreading over the period 1967-1986. One of the principal things I'll be complaining about is people mansplaining the reasons for the low sentence and directing everyone who objects to the judge's sentencing remarks with the assumption that reading the sentencing remarks is the sort of thing that only Proper Serious (Male) Lawyers would dream of doing before going on the record to say "the 15-month term "surely cannot be strong enough for the seriousness and circumstances of the crime"*

Read more... )

I'm not saying the judge didn't have a difficult job, and I'm sure he did weigh everything very carefully. But that's no reason for assuming people looking at the situation and going, "That's wrong on every sense of the word wrong" must necessarily be doing so from a position of unbalanced ignorance either. And I can't help noting there's been a very strong gender split on the comments. For which I blame Hall's role as a sports commentator, to be honest.

Unlike the other area of annoyance today, Nigella Lawson and the assault****on her by her husband, where there seems to have been equal opportunity idiocy, with Nick Griffen and Cristina Odone more-or-less tied in first place.

ARGGH!

EVERYONE is wrong on the Internet!





*Comment from Silly Gurly (Female) Shadow Attorney-General Emily Thornberry and hence to be Diskarded Uterly
** When I did criminal law, one of the points I noted with a combination of bemusement and horror was that the maximum sentence for sexual assault on a female was 2 years and on a male 10 years.
*** The event which, according to Tom Lehrer, inspired him to give up satire
****Anyone wishing to get smart-alecky, that's what Saatchi accepted a caution for. ETA Really, if one has just been caught in a act of domestic violence - and yes, other idiot on the internet, just because it happens outside an expensive Mayfair restaurant doesn't stop it being "domestic" - comments like this don't make you sound less control-freaky: "The paparazzi were congregated outside our house after the story broke yesterday morning, so I told Nigella to take the kids off till the dust settled."

Lovely evening...

Jun. 17th, 2013 10:22 pm
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It was, mostly, a boring, trivial and annoying day.

But the evening was lovely. Lynne and Lisa were at my place; when they I walked with Lynne down Third Avenue and up bank, and it was a lovely, cool evening, not quite dark yet even though it was around ten o'clock.

Seems to me I should think of something cool to do to mark the solstice. But what?

Happy things

Jun. 17th, 2013 09:09 pm
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Last year at wiscon I outlined a story for the imaginary books panel. In short, the idea was that a group of western feminists decide they are Sick and Tired of war in Western Asia and decide to call upon the ancient goddesses to Fix It Already. They invoke Sekmet and Ishtar and Anat (those three chosen because I know a little bit about each of them off the top of my head, mostly from reading placards in museums, so my knowledge is questionable at best), who of course, proceed to wreak havoc on the earth. Horrors ensue and eventually a cult of Egyptian priestess who have preserved the old religions across centuries of religious imperialism find a way to send the goddesses away. The audience loved it. Loved it so much, in fact, that more than a year later I was asked, again, when I'm going to finish writing it. Note the verb there: finish writing it.

I'm not going to write this story. I can't write this story. I'm too Christian and too westernized to be able to write someone else's goddesses without being horribly offensive. If done right, this plot should be offensive to Christians. That's fine by me; we need our feelings hurt more often, in my opinion, and I will cheerfully read or view or listen to art that is hostile to my beliefs. I can't produce it though.

So, here's the idea, released into the wild. I hope someone will write it.

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Today my boss distributed factory rejected samples of bare silicon from our last project. They're so shiny and pretty! I'm going to mount mine, along with the packaged version, and hang it on my wall. I can't actually see the module I worked on with the naked eye, even though it's relatively huge -- a whole millimeter across.

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Farm share starts this week, which means a return of Iron Chef - CSA blogging.

Payments are back

Jun. 17th, 2013 10:59 am
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The payment system is back online. It was my fault; I was moving it to our new hardware, but I didn't realize there is a code change that I have to make. (For the details curious, the underlying SSL module we use was upgraded, and it now requires you to add some more options when you use it.)

I have cleared out the pending queue of payments, so that we shouldn't have charged for anything in the past 24 hours, and that should mean there are no doubled (or more) payments. Please, of course, let us know if that's the case though, and we'll take care of it!

Sorry for the trouble!

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Jun. 17th, 2013 07:36 am
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The backend system that runs payments is temporarily unavailable, and will be fixed as soon as possible. If you've tried to make a payment at any time between last night & now and gotten an endless wait, your payment is almost certainly in the queue to be processed as soon as the backend is back up & running -- you don't need to submit it again.

If you wind up getting multiple charges when it comes back up (for instance, if you re-submitted the form, thinking that your internet connection was to blame) you can open a support request (in the Account Payments category) after the payment is processed and I'll issue a refund to your card for the extra charges.

We're really sorry about the downtime!

pondering wedding bells

Jun. 16th, 2013 03:59 pm
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it looks like the fiancé and i have actually started working on a plan to start thinking about setting a wedding date. heh.

mostly because i need his insurance, but whatever.

we have a year until mine runs out...and the kids', too, which worries me, almost as much as it worries me to contemplate paying for psych meds out of pocket. he has an HSA, which means i'm *still* paying out of pocket for care, but there's at least some kind of matching system and prescription benefit, which is what i actually care about. i can quit useless therapy and see my pdoc once every three months, that's fine. but i have to have my pills. one of which isn't even out in generic yet.

so, complaints out of the way, he needs to finalize his divorce this year. and we can't get married until next year, because this year i want my last fat tax return. after that, it'll be married-filing-separately so i don't end up paying $1000 a month on my student loans (oh hai, income-based repayment, please don't count my soon-to-be-husband's halfway decent job in my repayment calculations). but sometime between January 1st and June 30th, 2014, we're going to be getting hitched.

it seems horribly unromantic that such financial calculations have to be a part of whether/when i get to marry the love of my life, but that's how it is when you're stuck between poverty and middle-class. we'll probably never quite make it over the top, unless i get a real job - which, as a newly-minted adjunct, i can dream about, but not count on. there's two community colleges within driving distance...not a huge range of potential work. i *won't* take a full-time job at a business college; i don't care what benefits come with it...i can't deal with the administrative BS and the grubby fingers in the pie of my classroom. not after years of teaching at the university where they pat you on the back and tell you to meet certain standards - and they don't really care how, beyond glancing at the syllabus. i might someday take a PhD for the hell of it and try for a non-tenure-track full time gig at one of the branch campuses, as they do so love to hire their own desperate PhDs. in any case, for the time being, money is a concern.

i think i will have saved up enough to both send the kids to their dad for xmas *and* get us on a plane somewhere. we've contemplated going to florida, where the fiancé's father and stepmother currently live - they've offered to let us have the spare room for a visit, and we could get ten whole days of vacation somewhere warm, if we didn't have to pay for a hotel. it would be nice to get married in florida, on the first of the new year. (we'd just have our honeymoon beforehand.) or we could keep saving and use some of the tax return to go somewhere in June after the kids get out of school (since the plan to trade in the car with the tax return got trashed by the "oh god i don't have food stamps or medical insurance any more" crisis), but that's cutting it damn close...three weeks between end of school and do-or-die.

either way, due to schedules and finances, it looks like the date will be 1.1.14 (if we can get someone in florida to do it on a holiday - at least it would be easy to remember our anniversary) or sometime in June. no fancy ceremony, no expensive dress. those things don't matter anyway.

maybe i'll make him wear his hawaiian shirt, and i'll find some kind of fluttery white sundress or something.

if you can't tell by my dry tone, i'm excited and there are hearts in my eyes.

The joy of comics...

Jun. 15th, 2013 11:00 pm
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Tonight was Apaplexy collation at StarWolf's place. A good time was had by all.

Before that, I visited [livejournal.com profile] lunacy_gal and funkym3485, and had a lovely time. [livejournal.com profile] funkym3485 had his comics from the 1990s and I was happily reading old issues of Uncanny X-men that I'd missed first time round - never did know how that Genosha business happened - and issues of X-Force and Excalibur from about the same time. A few thoughts:

Writers I loved then and still love now: Fabian Nicieza, Warren Ellis, Scott Lobdell. Not that I like Warren Ellis' work so much now: it was his work for Marvel that I love. Oh, that Pete Wisdom. I miss him.

Artists I loved then and still love now: Carlos Pacheco, Chris Bachalo, Andy Kubert.

Writers and artist I didn't like then and still don't like: Alan Davis, Steve Skroce, Tom Raney, Tom DeFalco.

Mixed feelings about Brandon Peterson.

A treat: seeing art by Jim Cheung - under the name of Jimmy Cheung - in Uncanny X-men vol. 1 #371. Back before I knew who he was or what his work looked like. Love his version of Nick Fury!



Reading those comics reminded me how wonderful Gambit used to be. How did he become as dull an bland as he is now? And why?

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Jun. 15th, 2013 03:53 pm
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Happy birthday [personal profile] twistedchick
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I thought someone announced a fund for assisting working class or lower income people to attend sf cons or maybe Wiscon specifically, right after Wiscon 37, but I didn't bookmark it. Does anyone have a link?

This was distinct from the project to rename and publicize the Wiscon Member Assistance Fund, open to requests for anyone who needs financial assistance to attend Wiscon.

Sex, death, and pretty dresses

Jun. 14th, 2013 10:30 am
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This is going to become a lifelong in-joke.

The fiancé constantly gives me a hard time because "I don't like things." By which he means, I don't like his ridiculously bad, brain-dead television shows. To be fair, I harass him in return, so it all works out.

A few days ago, after I was insulting Arrow (his new kick), he asked me what plots I actually liked. "If it involves sex," I replied, "I'm probably down with it. Or death. Either way. Both is a bonus."

He nods. "That explains True Blood."

"And The Tudors."

"I thought that was because of the pretty dresses?"

"That too! Double bonus!"

Tonight he is wavering over whether to go see Superman with work buddies, and he isn't sure he wants to hang around until the movie starts. See, I have an entire season of the Borgias I haven't been able to watch yet, and ingredients for mexican food he won't eat.

"Go," I said. "I have every intention of indulging in sex, death, pretty dresses, and chicken enchiladas."

"...You're weird."

Yes, dear, but we've established that already.
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I wanted to post this here earlier, but it was very hard to be under five years old tonight in Chateau Steelypips. So:

As you know, dear readers, I run Con or Bust, which helps fans of color/non-white fans attend SFF cons. Since the start of 2012, Con or Bust has helped forty fans of color attend SFF cons, many for the very first time.

Today, for (ahem) absolutely no reason at all, the wonderful Arachne Jericho is matching donations to Con or Bust, up to $500. You can donate with either a credit card or a PayPal account:

We currently stand at $413. Since we're so close, and since it's late at least here on the East Coast, this is what I'm going to do:

I will match the next $500 in donations received, for either today or tomorrow. There's two assistance periods left before Con or Bust's next auction, and an extra thousand dollars or more will make a big difference in how many people we can help attend SFF cons; let's keep the momentum going!

Thanks, and please spread the word.

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[personal profile] laceblade, Unofficial WisCon 38 Programming Idea-Generation Fest
Go! Think things up!

I am dead sure we came up with lots of ideas during roomcon, but I don't appear to have remembered to write most of them down. Next year!

(OMG, the first Wiscon I attended was Wiscon 28! This doesn't make 38 my tenth Wiscon, because I skipped some years, but wow, ten years.)

What race does your rage come in

Jun. 13th, 2013 11:25 pm
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Remember I mentioned a while ago I wished someone would write that in-depth analysis of race and Iron Man? Well, I just came across the antithesis of that post.

Over here, [personal profile] coffeeandink suggests that Kanye West and Tony Stark could be the same person because they are, among other things, both "Egotistical, Genius, Wealthy, Extremely fashionable [and] Speaks before he thinks."

A wave of heat washed over me when I read that, and I confess, I had never imagined this particular reaction to the vagaries of fandom. I've read all sorts of AUs, after all, and crossovers, and I like the fannish space where you are given permission to set aside your real life morality to indulge in id-driven kinks (narrative and otherwise).

But the idea that the middle-class son of an English professor who catapulted himself into richness because of his artistic talent (and business savvy) can just be described as 'wealthy' in a way that makes him similar to the heir to a business empire whose silver spoon is inherited from a capitalist father and maintained by arms dealing... that idea flabbergasts me.

The idea that the public persona of a musician and singer could be compared with someone whose chosen profession is to design and operate lethal weaponry against people whose political or moral choices he disagrees with, and both could be equated as 'egotistical'...

it just crystallised for me, why I felt such horror at reading the comparison.

It's because somehow, violence has stopped being noteworthy. Just like the US acts like it is not fighting multiple wars, killing people all over the world, similarly a superhero like Iron Man is defined by being brash and smart and rich rather than an arms dealer turned violent terrorist.

In the face of the many myriad ways in which people like us inscribe our resistance: through words, and theatre, and song, and stories, and litigation, and legislation, and volunteering, and teaching, and hunger strikes, and whistle-blowing, and boycotts and....
in such a world, to think all of those things have any sort of equivalence to a morally bankrupt capitalist white man who chooses to use violence to uphold the hegemonies and hierarchies that privilege in...
it makes un-sense to me.

This cognitive dissonance is jarring, because I've been on the side of villains before, I've admired Ursula's tentacles and Hades' blue hair and thought them 'cooler' by far, than the heroes. Stories should be safe places to play out aspirations to violence and villainy.

I had not realised though, how strongly what the Tony Stark/Iron Man story meant to the world I live in. Where I live, Kanye West is an excellent musical artist with some questionable choices of public personas. A rich, clever (cis, straight) white man with business and military power enough to decide whom he wants to point his rocket blasters at?

That's the enemy.

Why would you ever want to see someone who in the real world has provided you some pleasure and joy through his creative talent and skill, as degraded into such a character?
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John Scalzi is matching donations made today to the Carl Brandon Society or the Octavia E. Butler Memorial Scholarship Fund, up to $1000.

ETA: Arachne Jericho is matching donations to CBS or the Butler scholarship up to $1000, and donations to Con or Bust up to $500.
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[twitter.com profile] sfwaauthors is a feed that automatically reposts specially tagged tweets from SFWA members. Author Theodore Beale, aka misogynist and racist blogger Vox Day, used it to post a racist, sexist screed specifically targeted at N.K. Jemisin as a response to her Guest of Honor speech at Continuum.

Full disclosure: Nora is a friend. But I don't think you have to be her friend to think Beale's actions are disgusting. If you want to see Beale's post, Amal el-Mohtar has provided screencaps in her call for Beale's expulsion from SFWA, which will save you from giving Beale hits and also from reading the comments on his blog, which are even more vile than the original post. I do not recommend reading Beale's post.

SFWA's officers have removed the tweet and it looks like many members are writing to the board to demand Beale's expulsion from the organization. I strongly suspect the Board will be in favor.

Meme

Jun. 13th, 2013 03:45 pm
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gacked from [personal profile] naraht

Pick any passage of 500 words or less from any story I've written, and comment to this post with that selection. I will then give you the equivalent of a DVD commentary on that snippet: what I was thinking when I wrote it, why I wrote it in the first place, what's going on in the character's heads, why I chose certain words, what this moment means in the context of the rest of the fic, and anything else that you’d expect to find on a DVD commentary track.

Stories all at AO3
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  • Egotistal.
  • Genius.
  • Wealthy.
  • Extremely fashionable.
  • Hugely fond of the color gold.
  • Speaks before he thinks.
  • Says things like: "It’s only led me to complete awesomeness at all times. It’s only led me to awesome truth and awesomeness. Beauty, truth, awesomeness. That’s all it is."


Are Kanye West and Tony Stark THE SAME PERSON? Have you ever seen them in the same room at the same time?
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Is currently $2.99 on Kindle; I don't know if this is a limited-time offer.

Positive review over at Strange Horizons by Maria Velazquez.

The world keeps on spinning

Jun. 12th, 2013 06:40 pm
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A day off! Maybe I can squeeze in a blog post ...

Shaboola

Been a bit busy that last little while. It's a blur, but fortunately I have an agenda handy to help figure it out. Let's see, starting mid-May. Union stuff May 15th. Friday went to Montreal to look for pony stuff at a nerdy funny-cartoon animal "conference". Saturday I was a "wedding photographer" where I took over 2,000 pictures.

Sarah

I hope some of them were OK. The groom's camera's battery went dead halfway through the wedding ceremony, then my rinkydink camera went dead halfway through the evening, by which time the groom's battery had charged a while. Around nine-ish that battery died again, but the garter had been thrown and I could escape (I am not a party type).

Sunday, back to the furry nerd-fest for discussion panels. The ones I went to were few and very poorly attended. I think it's going to be like communities on LJ & Dreamwidth: if you want nice things, you'll have to feed them yourself. ^_^; Or maybe, the Crystal Fair (MLP) con, to be held somewhere in Quebec, could get off the ground. Sunday evening I went to see Iron Man 3.

Worked Monday, my nose running like a faucet. Negotiations on Tuesday, feeling a bit drunk (likely a fever), nose still running. In bed all day Wednesday and Thursday. I lost weight! Huzzah! Maybe three pounds. I should be sick more often.

Friday, Saturday and Sunday: work. Still a little drunk on Friday, improved on Saturday and Sunday. Monday rest, Tuesday spent preparing counter-proposals for the negotiations.

Yellobird

Wednesday 29th: now that the rhinos are together (getting along fine since they were introduced on May 13th) and the cranes have been let out (May 16, I think), the two female zebras we keep with the rhinos in the summer have arrived. Thursday work, back to negotiation table Friday. Somewhere in all this there were three alpacas shorn, a wallaby and a meerkat in treatment twice a day, limping kangaroos, kangaroo anesthesia, minor ailments to evaluate, VIP (paid) visits to the rhino "barn" to host.

Saturday and Sunday off. It stopped raining and I mowed my lawn. Monday June 3rd, work: and suddenly we had three zebras.

zeeb2013

Figuring out that the mare the foal was following was not her mother took a few hours and five pairs of eyes. It's been over a decade since the last zebra foaling and this was not expected. Tuesday, going over negotiations and deciding on counter-proposals. Wednesday, work all day, an old meerkat has stopped eating, union assembly all evening. Thursday June 6th, return the (three!) zebras to the herd, meerkat anesthesia ( not my problem) shows an enlarged kidney that will be my future problem. It was also a Harmony holiday. There was cake, there was swag, and it was good.

Harmonyjune6_b_small

Friday June 7th off! Except for photocopying and posting union stuff at ten different cork-boards all over the place. Then road trip! To Montreal for swag, a book, comics, friends and a movie.

Last weekend? I must have slept. I think it rained. Oh! On Saturday threw together a birthday present for a MLP:FIM fan at work and delivered it on the sly. No one was fooled. Then I slept.

swllwtail

Monday, back to the negotiation table. Tuesday, back to going over strategy and counter-offers. These lunches at restaurants are making me regain the weight I lost. So far I've taken nearly 400 pages of notes, which bothers Human Resources to no end. HR can bite me.

Today? Wow, it stopped raining. *stays indoors*. Tomorrow and Friday: same as Monday and Tuesday, then I work the weekend, then another day of negotiations.

winllama

Reading Wednesday, 6/12/13

Jun. 12th, 2013 06:42 pm
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I'm not feeling very talky today, so it's just lists. Ask me for more details about anything that interests you.

Just finished
Heather Gladney, Teot's War
Livia Day (Tansy Rayner Roberts), A Trifle Dead
Tansy Rayner Roberts, Siren Beat (novella)
Kate Forsyth, Bitter Greens
Lisa L. Hannett & Angela Slatter, Midnight and Moonshine
Joan Slonczewski & Jo Walton, The Helix and the Hard Road

Currently reading
Joselle Vanderhooft (ed.), Wiscon Chronicles 7: Shattering Ableist Narratives
Barbara Hambly, Stranger at the Wedding (reread)

Acquired
Jonathan Hickman & various, FF Vol. 3-4
Atsuko Asano & Hinoki Kino, No. 6 Vol. 1
Joselle Vanderhooft (ed.), Wiscon Chronicles 7: Shattering Ableist Narratives
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So there's been another round of women-in-speculative-fic, and plenty of really good commentary. Highlights (if you missed them) include Fox Meadows' Realism & Outliers, which followed up on her masterpiece PSA: Your Default Narrative Settings Are Not Apolitical, Tansy Rayner Roberts' Historically Authentic Sexism in Fantasy. Let’s Unpack That. and Kameron Hurley's 'We Have Always Fought': Challenging the 'Women, Cattle and Slaves' Narrative and its especially awesome cannibalistic llamas analogy. [ETA: I thought someone did a roundup, but I can't find a link. If I do, I'll add.]

I guess I shouldn't have been surprised that someone would have to come along behind them and do the apologia, internalized misogyny reply. This time it was provided by Felicity Savage's Girl, You’re In the Army Now, which incidentally is also listed as Amazing Stories' 3rd most popular post in the past week. I would hope this is because there's a lot of people like me, who read it mostly to point and laugh, but my cynicism tells me otherwise.

I'm going to skip Savage's little apologia dance-moves. They're the same as what you'd find men writing, so nothing new here. What makes me roll my eyes the hardest are thoughtful observations like this: "It’s hard to imagine how any significant number of women could be spared from these vital tasks [of domestic duties like child-bearing/rearing], except for ideological reasons in a society that is violently breaking itself to remake itself, such as Maoist China (pre-industrial in the remoter regions then)."

Maybe war is different in Savage's reality. Anywhere else I can think of, war by definition is a break-or-be-broken situation. Revolution -- from Japan to Russia to France to the United States -- is just a domestic/internal version of the same. Ideology is a luxury; for those at the front lines, ideology takes a back seat to survival. The next generation is important, of course, but pretty much pointless if the current generation's about to get broken beyond repair.

A little more from Savage, and then onto Wrexler and the G's rehashed women-as-fighters arguments, and how you can get a totally useless answer by asking a totally wrong question. )

Doctor Who: "The Name of the Doctor"

Jun. 11th, 2013 10:45 pm
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Tonight for Fannish Night we watched the last episode of Doctor Who again, "The Name of the Doctor".

Oddly, it seemed to make less sense than the first time through. I still liked it well enough - some things about it, I loved - but a masterpiece of clarity it is not.

Makes me curious about what is to come, though.

And I really, really like the ending.

Beef stew and the Hobbit

Jun. 11th, 2013 06:46 pm
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I must post here more often: I find that when I don't post, I forget what I've done - as if it doesn't matter any more. So: note to self: keep on posting.

Not that today was exciting. Just rainy. I've been cooking beef stew for Fannish Night, making job applications, writing my apazine. Enjoying commentary on the Bujold mailing list comparing the characters in Lord of the Rings with the characters in the Vorkosigan novels. Would Miles Vorkosigan fall to the power of the Ring? I think not. Others disagree.

Which fits in nicely with my experience on Sunday of seeing, finally, the first fifteen minutes of The Hobbit. Smaug comes to the Mountain. The Dwarves were not vigilant. Ahh, Tolkien. I can't bring myself to care about The Hobbit the way I do about Lord of the Rings, but my goodness, he has some lovely Dwarves there.

Especially Thorin Oakenshield.

Dreamwidth News: 11 June 2013

Jun. 11th, 2013 05:23 pm
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Hello, Dreamwidth! Last week, we attended YAPC, the annual conference put on by the Perl Foundation. We brought a group of our developers so they could both attend the conference and learn things, and also so they could represent Dreamwidth to the wider world. (Which they did! Awesomely!)

The conference itself was full of a number of interesting and varied talks, given by a bunch of incredibly smart people, and we learned a bunch (and found out about all kinds of useful things we can apply to Dreamwidth in the future). Aside from that, though, we had a great week, full of things like midnight hackathons, trips to see the actual servers that run Dreamwidth in person, people being voluntold to do things (that's a combination of "volunteer" and "told" that involves me pointing at someone and telling them "that's a great idea, why don't you do that"), and a whole host of teambuilding and other productive things. We've learned things, taught things, broke things, fixed things, and discovered just how many people you can pack into a hotel room and not want to kill each other later.

We'd like to say "thank you" to everybody who's paid for their accounts lately, since it's your support that allowed us to do this, and it's already paying off in bugfixes, new features, usability improvements, and loads of people who heard about Dreamwidth-the-open-source-project from us and are interested in coming to hack with us. So, let's go over some of the neat stuff we did!

(I also want to apologize in advance for any typos or weirdness in this news post, since I switched recently to dictating instead of typing, since my RSI problems just keep getting worse. Let me tell you, it may be easier than I thought it would be to make the transition, but that does not mean it's easy.)

Behind the cut:

* Conference Report
* Development
* Icon Renaming
* Pretty URLs
* Tales from the Conference #1
* New Entry & Comment Pages
* Spam Prevention
* HTML Cleaner Changes
* Tales from the Conference #2
* Volunteering with Dreamwidth

and now the news )

Links

Jun. 11th, 2013 10:39 am
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  • Friends of Dennis:

    Friends of Dennis is a grassroots fan project dedicated to fostering discussions of class and classism from within a speculative literature framework.[...]

    Chris Wrdnrd writes:

    I found myself becoming increasingly interested in discussions of class and classism largely because, i’m sorry to say, i kept seeing such discussions going horribly wrong at Wiscon — a feminist SF convention held annually in Madison, Wisconsin, over Memorial Day weekend, and easily one of my 2 favorite conventions. Because i love Wiscon so much, it pained me to see class(ism) conversations being done in a way that was deeply hurtful to someone like me, namely someone who grew up on the lower end of the class spectrum in the United States. I felt underrepresented at best, and horribly misrepresented at worst, in the class(ism) panels and discussions i kept seeing happen at Wiscon.


  • N.K. Jemisin's Continuum Guest of Honor Speech:

    So I propose a solution — which I would like to appropriate, if you will allow, from Australia’s history and present. It is time for a Reconciliation within SFF.

    It is time that we all recognized the real history of this genre, and acknowledged the breadth and diversity of its contributors. It’s time we acknowledged the debt we owe to those who got us here — all of them. It’s time we made note of what ground we’ve trodden upon, and the wrongs we’ve done to those who trod it first. And it’s time we took steps — some symbolic, some substantive — to try and correct those errors. I do not mean a simple removal of the barriers that currently exist within the genre and its fandom, though doing that’s certainly the first step. I mean we must now make an active, conscious effort to establish a literature of the imagination which truly belongs to everyone.


  • [personal profile] sasha_feather, Blind vs. Masked:

    I first started using "Masked" instead of "Blind" when I worked on a scientific study where some blind people were participants. Blind is both a medical term and an identity category, and therefore it means a lot of things already; "masked" is more respectful and we used it in place of "double blind study" for example. This was before I got into disability politics, maybe around 2005.


  • (H/t Racialicious) Don Cheadle, Kerry Washington Talk Frankly About Life in Hollywood:

    When people reference your race when describing your career, is that a point of pride, or is it something that you think is overplayed in the media as part of your story?

    DC: I think I’m somewhat defined by my race for sure, and I’m good with that and I actually want that to be a part. … I think that should be fodder for our work — we should use all aspects of ourselves. I’m always trying to find a place where that’s actually an impact on what I’m doing as opposed to going, “Well, we’re all just people and we’re the same.”

    KW: I agree. I think it’s relevant. I think gender is relevant. I bring something to the table as a woman; I bring something to the table as a woman of color. So I feel like, if it’s the only thing you focus on, then it’s a danger, and if you never talk about it then it’s a danger.

(no subject)

Jun. 10th, 2013 11:34 am
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So this happened last week. I've been given to understand that the author of said blog post made some homophobic comments in a private forum that prompted people to tell her that no, what she was saying was not okay. One quote that got leaked to the public twitterverse said "I feel like we [Christians] are the new Jews or gypsies."

No, no we [Christians] are not and never will be "the new Jews" and to claim we are betrays a stunning ignorance of world history, church history, our scriptures, and two thousand years of theological thought and writing, not to mention a profound lack of christian virtues. Nor, to address the original claim that led to the first round of criticism, is being a Christian incompatible with supporting political rights for LGBTQ people, as a bare minimum of human decency. It's also not incompatible with the full inclusion and participation of LBGTQ people in the church, nor with, you know, being queer yourself.

There's a longer response to this, but I'm finding that I want to do it right, with citations from Augustine to Zondervan, and I just didn't have time this weekend to get it all together. But I also didn't want to let another week go by without fulfilling my promise to Rose that I'd write some kind of rebuttal soon. I don't flatter myself that I'm a big enough voice that Ms Fulda, or anyone who has cheerfully re-linked her post with approval, would particularly care about my response, but even as small as my platform is, it's important to me to challenge things my co-religionists do that make the world a worse place for everyone.

If I sound cranky, it's because I am. I am exhausted by this "debate," if you can even call it that, about my right to exist in my church. I can only imagine how sick of our bullshit all the non-christians are.

Quantum State of the Beable

Jun. 9th, 2013 04:01 pm
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So I've been meaning to make various update-y type posts - as well as posts on various subjects like Muppets, Iron Man, and Wiscon since the beginning of May, which I haven't been doing. So instead, have a life update-y post with some of the random other stuff thrown in.

Work: I changed jobs on May 1st. For those with my contact info, that hasn't changed, but instead of being a unix admin, I'm now working in the exciting field of enterprise backups and a touch of storage. Currently TSM, because that's we're the government and we're here to caption your cats that's how we roll. Generally speaking I am happy with the change.

Cons/Travel: Went to Ottawa ComicCon, followed by visiting NYC the following week, and Wiscon the week after that. Am heading to KWDS in two weeks, and have a ticket to the Saratoga stop on Neil Gaiman's The Last US Signing Tour on the 1st night of the event. Also need to remember to buy a membership for Farthing Party (not till Sept, but I need to remember to buy the membership soon).

Muppets: I watched the Muppet Movie while I was in NYC. Some revelations in the process (mine and others):

- Miss Piggy is totally River Song
- Animal is totally a Dalek. He even has the little spikes on his colar like the Dalek shell.
- The scene where Bunsen Honeydew and Beaker or talking about how the effects of the Insta-Grow pill are "sadly temporary" clearly indicates that they were trying to invent a more permanent Viagra. Also Bunsen/Beaker OTP!

The movie is still fun - especially when watched with people singing along, but there are two major aspects to it that I hate - one of which I have always hated and one which I have always hated but have not really deconstructed till the most recent watching:
a) the Mel Brooks German mad scientist sequence is just icky and has always been not funny. The end.
b) The boys-club "girls and girl pigs all have cooties" nature of the character interactions is more more blatant than I had remembered, although I do recall a sense of vague dissatisfaction on this front from previous watching (love of the muppets notwithstanding).

Let's review what happens:
Kermit and Fozzie decide to drive to Hollywood. Along the way, whenever they meet a new muppet (e.g. Gonzo, Big Bird, Sweetums, Electric Mayhem), they immediately invite them along. Until you get to Miss Piggy. And then it is SOOOO FUNNY for Kermit to invite her for ice cream, her to think the invite is to go to Hollywood (because it's sooooo funny that she thought she belonged in the group har har har) and then the other muppets (Fozzie and Gonzo) grumbling about how she will cramp their style. I love the muppet franchise in general, but that scene displayed some major asshole-ness on the part of Jim Henson and Frank Oz.

But onwards to Doctor Who:

Clara's missing line: I wear a Dalek now. Daleks are cool.

Other Stuff: Can't remember what other stuff, running off to exchange something at Stubbes before they close at 17:00.

Goblins Kickstarter (again)

Jun. 9th, 2013 02:38 am
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I know, I posted about this already. I hope it's okay to repost. I don't plan on spamming these communities. I just wanted to try asking one more time. There are some updates and stuff.

The Goblins Card Game Kickstarter is going along very nicely. Already triple funded. I hear they're considering adding some new rewards (digital goodies and stuff for even the lower tiers), but we'll have to see how that goes.

Here's the thing: If they can hit 4000 backers, they'll send Thunt, the author of Goblins, to NY ComicCon. Thunt is a very cool guy. I'm lucky to be able to call him a friend. But he lives all the way up near Vancouver, 3000 miles away. I don't get to see him often. (Disabilities + Internet = awesome friends around the globe + very little chance to hang out with any of them in person.) If you can help the project hit 4000 backers (by chipping in even just a dollar or two, and maybe asking friends who can spare it to do the same), you'll be doing me a personal favor.

I should also mention that the game, which looks like a lot of fun, is explained better now. There's a new video on the Kickstarter page, under "description of gameplay." Evertide Games is still fairly new at this Kickstarter thing, but they're listening to the fans and responding. And they've clearly put a lot of love and meticulous care into the game. Not just in keeping it true to the comic, but in striving to create a game that will be so fun to play on its own merits that it will be able to draw in new fans and readers.

So check it out. If you haven't already, give Goblins Comic a look. It's an engaging story with a wide cast of developed characters and a good blend of humor, action, drama, and strong character moments.
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Heaven knows I've seen some utter rubbish about the "passive voice" or, to use the usual (meaningless) phrase "passive writing" in my time, but I'd never seen it blamed for perpetrating rape culture before. The usually reliable Judith Flanders, on Twitter, linked to this part of ill-thought-out idiocy by one Jonathan J Lindsell, which manages to combine all of the following, as the author was trying to play legionseagle pet peeve bingo:

- handwavy attempt to link use of part of speech of which he disapproves (to be fair to Lindsell, at least he can identify the passive voice, unlike most of the people identified in the 63-and-counting posts on the topic at Languagelog) to behaviour of which most right-thinking people disapprove, and so score guilt by association;

- Vaguely wet-liberal handwringing about rape and sexual assault being Bad Things unaccompanied by any practical suggestions as to what to do about them;

- that general blokey air of those who identify themselves as Allies (with the capital) of feminism being too important to leave to women;

- the classic online Social Justice (TM) tactic of "first to call the other party to an argument a racist wins";

and, finally, and completely damning him in my eyes:

- a proposal which would actually make convicting rapists far harder than it currently is, masquerading as an appeal for greater sensitivity to the feelings of those who have been raped - much the same problem as I highlighted the other day in relation to the complaints of Cambridge students that aspiring lawyers shouldn't be expected to study the Sexual Offence Act 2003 because it required them to contemplate acts that were "horrific" and "beyond acceptable".

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Code pushed

Jun. 7th, 2013 11:31 pm
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Hi all!

The code has been pushed. As always, please report problems here! We have lots of hands on deck and ready to jump on things that might be awry. Thanks!

Code push tonight

Jun. 7th, 2013 04:13 pm
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We've been hacking away in person at the conference we went to this week, and we'd like to share the fruit of our labors with you all! There'll be a code push tonight (6/7) at 9PM CDT, which is 10PM EDT/7PM PDT/2AM GMT (6/8). (Convert to your time zone!)

We don't consider this one "high risk", so (*knocks wood*) it should be pretty uneventful.

Return of the King Cat

Jun. 8th, 2013 12:43 am
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Oh yeah, so btw internet, Leher is a boy billa. I suspected so soon after I made my last picture post, and spent a few instructive minutes googling kitten genitalia pics. The vet confirmed that I had indeed identified his balls correctly.

This has led to several people telling me that Leher is a girl's name. I respond by pointing out that Mihir and Kiran and Seher can all be boys names, so why not Leher. One friend went grammar-Nazi on me and pointed out that leheren are striling. She continued to further argue that calling him Leheriya would have been more appropriate, like Kanhaiya. I disagreed, and by foster-parent fiat, the name remains.

I am prompted in making this post because I need to defend Leher's reputation. It seems some shady pics have surfaced of him having a wild night at a party.

Leher wishes it to be known that he was Not Himself, by virtue of being fed meat for the first time in his young, innocent life (and that too imported sausages from London!) and that his evil Aunty [twitter.com profile] ActuallyAisha took terrible advantage of him. She and the other cougar ladies kept him up all night. He Denies Everything, and knows nothing about the Unfortunate Demise of That Balloon.

Gratuitous kitten pictures and the verbal updates to go with them )

come on baby, play me something

Jun. 6th, 2013 11:53 pm
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Saw Metric at Upstate Concert Hall tonight. Had a lot of fun, nice high-energy show with a crowd that largely was into it [*] and with the vocals mixed to be audible. (Their opening act, whose name I did not catch and who only got the gig yesterday, could have done better in this regard. They were otherwise a decent match and perfectly enjoyable.)

I admit I was a little sad that my two favorite songs, "Satellite Mind" (note: clearly-audible "fuck" in chorus) and "Blindness" didn't make it, though not surprised, since they're from the last album. (I have no idea what their actual singles were because I discovered them thanks to Chad buying the album and shuffle-playing new acquisitions.)

Could have wished that it was longer—about 80 minutes total—but probably for the best given that it's a weeknight. Here, have the slowed-down acoustic sing-along version of "Gimme Sympathy" that was just the right way to end the night:

embedded concert video )

[*] Dear Asshole, )

Meme

Jun. 6th, 2013 01:21 pm
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Spotted all over the place, most recently from [personal profile] marinarusalka

Give me a fandom and I'll tell you:

my favourite female character
my favourite male character
my favourite book/season/etc
my favourite episode/issue/chapter, etc
my favourite cast member
my favourite relationship
a character I'd die defending
a character I just can't sympathize with
a character I grew to love
my anti otp


Any fandom I've posted fic for either at the website or A03 is fair game.

Now THERE'S a Warrior Woman

Jun. 6th, 2013 07:40 am
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Came across this genderflipped Avengers/Doctor Who poster (Avengers IKEA not the other lot, for British readers of a certain age) poster and was struck dumb by it, especially by Donthor, Temp of the Gods!

Those morons at SWFA might want to consider it next time they want to show a Warrior Woman on the cover of their trade magazine looking sexy but tough. Trust me, it'll avoid a lot of trouble.

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Jun. 5th, 2013 10:29 pm
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Spent a wonderful day in Gananoque: visited J. Mann Books, walked in the park, used the gym on King Street, and ate lunch at the wonderful restaurant Boston Chinese.



Defiance...

Jun. 5th, 2013 09:31 pm
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I just watched episode 7 of Defiance, which had me and Pim shrieking in surprise.

What an interesting show. It looked at first like a compendium of science fiction clichés put together in an entertaining way. But now... seven episodes in... we are totally enjoying the many layers of plot and theme, the characters and their interaction, the schemes and their schemes....

Okay, yes, it may fall flat - but so far it's just been building and building, without disappointment.

And it has been surprising me, in ways most TV shows simply don't.



And, just for my own reference... )

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Jun. 5th, 2013 08:02 pm
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Looking at ALL THE PICTURES of these things. Do I want a metal thing drilled into my skull and a not-unsizeable, visible plastic thing attached to it? So much stuff from being taught I must NEVER LET ANYONE KNOW I'm deaf... Ughhh I wish I knew if it would be worth it. What if I hated it? Apparently you can have a kind of simulation test, and only 50% of people decide to have it after that...and I might not be eligible anyway.

UGH FEELS. As if decisions about other surgery weren't enough. :/

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Jun. 5th, 2013 08:02 pm
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So I saw the audiologist today, for the first time since I was a little kid. It was...kind of emotional? :S (To put it mildly)

The audiogram itself was triggering in the very literal sense - it triggered memories and feelings I haven't really touched on in decades. Stuff I didn't really know was there, from being shut in a box and beeped at. Don't want to go into much of it here, really, but a lot of Stuff.

And beyond that...I may be a candidate for a bone-anchored hearing system. Basically they drill a thing into your skull, and it would give me the illusion (?not sure of the right word?) of 360 degree binaural hearing...and I don't know. I feel really overwhelmed by it. I don't know if I want it. I'm struggling with issues around things like internalised disablism, and second-guessing every thought and feel I have. I'd known about these before but they weren't covered where I lived so it wasn't an issue, and I didn't even know if I'd be a candidate.

I'm basically pretty much overwhelmed, yeah... especially on top of some really bad anxiety attacks and a whole bunch of surgery stuff. So. Ugh. :/