You know, I have a new respect for bloggers. 'cause I imagine some of them are actually going to be managing to report on WorldCon. And I have *no freakin' clue* how they're going to be coherent enough to do that.
A rundown of my day, then, in point form;
* breakfast with James
* hit a signing
* went to "Weird Tales" panel
- listened to people and was very happy
- also got to see a
One-Minute Weird Tale from the site which still has me giggling
o go watch it I will wait
* went for lunch
* and briefly
* had discussion of upcoming panel and schtuff
- which led to explaining terms like "male gaze" and "invisible knapsack"
- which led to the discussion of sexism in open source and the guys who say they do not see it
o at which point I was told that they mean they don't see it against successful women, because it doesn't happen to women who are successful in open source, and once they clear that first hurdle of achieving professional credentials there is no sexism in the environment
# (we love you Skud) (put down the cricket bat, Marna says she's on it)
- also it was explained that the war on sexism is over, and there is no point in making further effort
o because really this is why third-wave feminism failed they were all being shrill
o and you have to choose your point of attack
o no not "education" it should be referred to "attack"
- also it was said that men are objectified in comics exactly the same way women are
o and that any attempt to differentiate between "objectifying" and "idealizing" is really subjective and splitting hairs
# at which point I offered a text portrait of the first picture
here o and anyway it's a natural part of psychological development
# and I kept an emphatic but conversational tone when explaining that while children might go through a stage when they are unable to understand that other people were not objects I did not see this as excusing the practice of perpetuating it
o also there was an attempt to divert by discussing manga which objectifies men in exactly the same way
o also a mention that perhaps it was unreasonable to expect comics to depict a world without racism or sexism, which I pointed out had nothing to do with my suggestion that perhaps they should quit *indulging* in it forget about depicting it
o because anyway all comics are made for white adolescent males
o and the few that aren't are just thinly disguised variations
# and I did not brandish anything like
Maus or do anything more than pointedly ask who the hell he thought the GoH was *anyway*
# and I do wish I had made more of an effort to point out that I think Sandman is not made for not-white-adolescent-males it is made for *people*
o and that people don't learn attitudes from mass media or characters and personas portrayed therein
o and that the options were screaming at the corporations or preaching to the choir or else getting people who hadn't already picked a side
# so I pointed out that this requires the assumption that accepting sexism is a deliberate and conscious choice
- and the conversation ended with the observation that the war on homophobia had also been won and people could just sit back
- which would be a good plan because he had seen so many people shoot themselves in the foot
- and I thanked him for his opinion on what I should do with my time and how he felt I should handle things that I saw as a problem
o yes, politely.
* then Angela and I went to check my e-mail and get her her registration
- and I geeked *madly* in the Dealer's Room and Art show and squeed kind of shamelessly over
o the
creaturesfromel sculptures
o the
Weird Tales table where they have free issues
o the woman who does the really smashing shadowboxes and jewelry whose link I will put up once I get back to my room
* went to "Writing the Other and Other Assumptions"
- got clue-by-foured, again. Ah, preconceptions, how we whittle you down.
- decided really need to place that order with Aqueduct Press dammit
* then I caught up with Us F5 Folk at the Future of Horror panel
* dashed out and caught the last of the Asimov panel
- and Connie Willis was talking about one time when all the stories she had out came back rejected all at once and I swear to god I wanted to hug her and make it all better
o and I cannot imagine how much it must hurt to be a writer at times
- but I caught her after the panel and she very kindly signed *both* my books
- and if you haven't read her you totally should. Now. Because she is that good. And *funny*.
* and then I came back to the hotel and hit the Con Suite for food
* and got online for a bit
* and I *missed* the VanderMeer signing because I thought it ran for an hour but it only ran for half of one, but I will find her tomorrow
* and I wandered into Tim Hortons' and talked to Marna and
karnythia for a bit
- also I have made
karnythia's List, by subjecting her to "
Fenimore Cooper's Literary Offenses"
o I am really kind of proud of this
o she promised to make it quick, too
* and then I headed back to the Delta for an internet connection
* and so I am here
* also got recommendations for *so many* books, including
A Bolt of White Cloth