A good friend of mine--
commodorified--coined the term "helpy" to describe what happens when you explain you're doing something, and why, and get a bunch of responses explaining how to do something different. They're well-meaning, but they are not actually helpful. At all. And have nothing to do with your plans or efforts or anything like that, besides casually dismissing them.
I didn't quite have to deal with helpy this morning, but it seems to be in the same general ballpark. I've been dealing with someone who's running a game--we've not met in person, just e-mailed and chatted online--and I submitted a character sheet off to him. Player name, character name, stats, abilities, yadda yadda yadda.
They sent it back with a couple of small changes, which is fine.
They also changed my last name to John's last name.
Despite my last name being what I typed. And what's displayed on my e-mails. And my e-mail address. And, you know, what they've seen as my last name during every communication we've had.
I am less than thrilled.
EDIT: Apology offered and accepted, record corrected, mellowness resumed.
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I didn't quite have to deal with helpy this morning, but it seems to be in the same general ballpark. I've been dealing with someone who's running a game--we've not met in person, just e-mailed and chatted online--and I submitted a character sheet off to him. Player name, character name, stats, abilities, yadda yadda yadda.
They sent it back with a couple of small changes, which is fine.
They also changed my last name to John's last name.
Despite my last name being what I typed. And what's displayed on my e-mails. And my e-mail address. And, you know, what they've seen as my last name during every communication we've had.
I am less than thrilled.
EDIT: Apology offered and accepted, record corrected, mellowness resumed.